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I am praying for you. For example, men highly appreciate when a woman is good in cooking or an excellent housewife, as well as being witty, intelligent, sometimes funny and just lovely. That I had to love Him more than him, and just pray for this guy´s salvation if it was what a really cared about.\
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Praying for you, Paula Paula no longer tries to catch guys' attention by swallowing live goldfish, arm wrestling, and jumping down flights of stairs. I abandoned all thoughts of God in my twenties, until it became glad that I needed to be sober. They have always been atheist. Choose a nice restaurant or just go for drinks — or select one of our. How do we do this. EliteSingles is, without doubt, the place you turn to find lasting love and a civil match. Thoughts lead to actions, and by having self-control a fruit of the Holy-Spirit and controlling our thoughts, we dating atheist better control our actions. An atheist and a Christian are not compatible.

As we see it, the quality of human life as a whole — and that includes family life — has been compromised as a result of sin and mankind's fall from grace. Human created things have limits. If you choose God over this man, God will not love you any more than He already does.\
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Note: A girl just emailed me asking for advice. I am deeply concerned for you. An atheist and a Christian are not compatible. A Christian is a person who is now one with Christ. A Christian has been rescued by Jesus out of the darkness of sin and has been brought into His marvelous light—transformed from the inside out. A Christian has the spirit of Christ living inside of them! A Christian is someone whose entire identity has been refashioned around Christ. Christ is their life. Christ is the reason they are now accepted and beloved by God the Father. An atheist, on the other hand, denies that God even exists. An atheist and a Christian are not compatible. How do I know this? Well, years ago, the apostle Paul wrote to the Christians in Corinth, urging them not to enter into any kind of a close partnership with an unbeliever. One way we can apply this to our lives today is that we should not marry and therefore we should not date or long to date someone who is not wholeheartedly pursuing and delighting in God. Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Let me be clear about this, though. If you choose God over this man, God will not love you any more than He already does. If you truly trust in Christ Jesus as both your Savior and your Lord, you are already His 100% dearly loved child. Does that mean that you have the freedom to date this man? Besides, why would you want to, when Christ has revealed Himself to you as the greatest treasure there is—both in this life and for the life to come? I get it that you have strong feelings toward this man. Be completely honest with her, and ask her to help hold you accountable. Stop dancing with him. Get to know Him. Learn to enjoy Him the way He delights in you. Praying for you, Paula Paula no longer tries to catch guys' attention by swallowing live goldfish, arm wrestling, and jumping down flights of stairs. She's married to a wonderful man now! She spends her days caring for her son, Iren, and writing for Revive Our Hearts. She's the author of Confessions of a Boy-Crazy Girl: On Her Journey from Neediness to Freedom, and she and her family live in New York. You can catch all her writing on PaulaWrites. We love hearing from you, but feel limited in the ways we can help. Also, the following comments do not necessarily reflect the views of Revive Our Hearts. We reserve the right to remove comments which might be unhelpful, unsuitable, or inappropriate. Furthermore, I live in the Bible Belt, so evangelical Christianity is pretty much everywhere. I wanted to thank you for joining the conversation! I think Paula is just saying, by definition, atheists believe — firmly — that there is NO God. How CAN anyone have true value without God? On the flip side, we know for a fact that every human being unborn or not , has value. Everyone has value because they were created in the image of a Holy God, and he loves us SO much! More than you could ever imagine! Thanks again for commenting: I also agree with A. Does it get you to a better heaven? God cares about us SO much that children die of starvation every day? He collects all our tears? How about using some of his power to help people instead of letting them suffer? If he really loved us, he would take care of us. The world got really messed up when sin entered it, and it has only gotten worse. God allows things to happen for a reason. Children die of starvation every day because OUR sin messed up the world. Sin is really ugly, and sometimes I live on a farm, I have sheep, I have precious, beautifully created lambs. I also realize that God is God, he is good, and he still loves me, even if he allows bad things to happen to me. I trust him to do what is best, I know that he will work ALL things together for MY good and HIS glory Romans 8:28. God certainly has the ability and power to set everything right at this very moment, but he has chosen not to. There is a countdown to when his son, Jesus, will return in all his glory and power and destroy all evil, conquer sin and Satan, and all those who believe in Christ will be in heaven with him for eternity. We are all born into sinfulness, and when we accept Jesus Christ as our savior, he begins to work in us to make us more like him kinder, more loving, gracious, less sinful , we are sanctified through Christ, and that sanctification process takes place all our lives until we die. God does love us all deeply, but he gave us free will so that we could choose to love him instead of him forcing us to love him and just being mindless robots. But with that freedom comes the ability to choose to not love him. In our sinfulness, we have turned away from the love that God freely gives. Please let me know if there is anything that I have left unclear. Sadly, not all churches teach truth. It is NOT a threat, it is a warning. Say you were traveling down a path, and that path forked at one point. Would you tell me that whoever made the path was cruel and horrible for allowing a path to form that possibly lead to death, and yet still walk that path? But one is clearly wiser than the other. God never sends people to hell, they send themselves there through their own sins. Evil is the absence of good. Another example might make more sense. A hole is just the absence of dirt. Here is a really good article that I just found that explains this better: So we have the choice to accept good or reject it evil. But God is holy, therefore he cannot dwell with sin, the sin in us separates us from God. But Jesus paid our fine, clearing our record before the judge, so now we are free from our debt and we can be with God. And it creeps me out. God made the rules, right? So he died temporarily, nothing like eternal torment to appease god, because Jesus is god, right? I figure if you are omnipotent, eternal judge of everything, you get to take the blame for everything, bad or good. All that exists is this world and how we treat other people. Who makes the rules? Who defines right and wrong, justice and injustice? Also, how does God take the blame for everything? A sin is just a word for anything bad that anyone does. Even stealing a pencil in junior high is wrong. God originally created everything perfect, but when Adam and Eve sinned, their sin reverberated throughout all of their descendants us. There has to be justice, it would be wrong for God to give someone a free pass after sinning, they have to pay for the wrong things they do. Sin can only be paid for through the shedding of blood, so God sent Jesus. I cannot save myself from that. You praying for me comes across as condescending. If god has a plan for everything, why do you think you can pray for something to change? So you are ok with rape, murder and killing everyone on the planet except one family if god says so. All of that happened in the old testament. And yet, god wants to condemn you for thought crime? I pray for my own heart, as well as for the hearts of others. My prayer for you is that God will reveal himself to you, would you be willing to ask God for that yourself? God said that he regretted creating man. Not in the sense that he made a mistake, but in the sense that he was sorrowful that they had fallen so far. But once again, sin and and evil are still around and once again, this is the human condition, why we need Jesus. There are so many sad, terrible things that are chronicled in the Bible, all of which are meant for us to learn from the mistakes of others. There is condemnation for those who violate women. When the nation of Israel was entering the Promised Land, they did attack and kill the nations that were living there at the time. But think about this: who did the land belong to? God created the whole world, and so it was his land to do with as he pleased. But when my best friend comes along, I want to let her use the robot. It is destructive because it causes us to be greedy, discontent, and willing to do whatever it takes to have what we desire, mostly relating to stealing. Coveting is the beginning of a vicious cycle that leads to more serious sins. Thoughts lead to actions, and by having self-control a fruit of the Holy-Spirit and controlling our thoughts, we can better control our actions. A god like that is awful. I wish I had back all the years I spent believing in that nonsense. God could have done it another way had he chosen to. We see the world with a jaded view, God sees the whole picture, he has a holistic view of our world. He can do anything, but there are some things that he just chooses not to do. You still have the choice to obey your parents and not eat the cookie, but they gave you the ability the disobey. But because the temptation is there, you can choose to obey, and it will mean much more. God always gives an answer, sometimes yes, sometimes no, sometimes wait. I may have started out an impressionable child, but I am growing into a strong woman of faith. Because if you spoon-feed them their whole lives without making them find the truth of their own volition, they will question their faith and then feel lied to when they are unable to properly interpret scripture. They make sweeping statements, leading to rebelling against the faith they were raised in. Are you saying that only weak, desperate people want religion? Please keep in mind that there is another real person with thoughts, feelings and emotions on the other side of the screen. Snarky, derogatory, slighting, and mean spirited sarcastic comments can be hurtful. She did nothing to deserve these words from you. I am praying for you. Becca, just that you have been found in Him is commendable. Sometimes the conversation just has to end. Let Him do the heart changing. Adam and Eve chose against that by sinning. We too can choose whether to be lost in the cycle of sin OR to be made holy by a God who loves us. Freedom can only be found in a good God. But there is most definitely an appeal to do what we want. I am so sorry you have seen the church — something God intended to be different — as something horrible. Christians mess up, too, but we are being changed. I was a God-hater, too, until God revealed His lovingkindness to me in Christ Jesus paying the penalty for my sin so I might be set free from being a slave to my own selfish passions and might become His beloved, adopted daughter. This is a bit off topic, but would you be bold enough to ask God to reveal Himself to you if He really is real? But there are things contradicting I believe. Christ himself was the one who made friends and brought followers by first accepting as who they are. Also as a person who read the bible in order, from what I concluded where God asks — many times — not to be with people who are not believers during the time people are not confident of their beliefs. We all remember in most common example, in exodus after all their prayers answered by their God against Egyptians, they still worshipped to a golden statue. I think the actual standing point is, how confident you are in your beliefs. Are you challenging this precious person to understand you more? I am converted to Christianity unlike many of you who born into family of christians. I was born into Islam, gave up, stood as Theist several years, during my questions and seeing changes Christ made in my family, I decided to understand. I started reading the bible then, was hard i must say. There are many things to judge with mind free of religions. In a crude explanation, I found the opinion of Atheism very Shallow here. If we keep classify people as Atheist and stay away from them, how can we follow actual example of Christ. Atheism is denial of God, due to not seeing his presence. Not giving a chance to understand it. People are not like in movies. Villains and heroes do not exist. Also what is love? Can it be shaped? Can it be directed? Love is something makes us human. There is no limits of it. But Marriage is sexual relationship and construction of family as described in bible. There were no white dressed, flower background, priest acceptance wedding. When you have the responsibility of a family, then you start to shape your life according to your beliefs. Also at this point, life of christ will be noticed as the most secure way of keeping your family together. Atheism is the absence of God. But God brings peace. Human created things have limits. I´d like to share that when I became a Christian 8 years ago, I had been dating an atheist guy for 3 years. I wanted him to trust Christ, of course, I tried to persuade him, I talked to him a lot about God, and I even gave him a Bible. A part of me wanted to be with him, so he had to become a Christian; the other part of me was really concerned about his eternal destiny. But, though Christ was friend with sinners, he wasn´t so close to them. He was there just to give them what they needed, when they needed it, he was there to serve; but he was not expecting to hear their wisdom, or to receive something from them. I, wanted to be accepted and loved by this guy, I wanted to listen to him, to understand him, though I wanted to help him I was in a vulnerable position. And the flesh is weak. The Lord convinced me that I had to flee. That I had to love Him more than him, and just pray for this guy´s salvation if it was what a really cared about. After 3 years of dating it wasn´t easy but it saved me from heartache, confussion, immorality. And run to the arms of Jesus. Make Him your shelter, swim in His precious Word, and pray the Psalm 19. I know how it feels, but I can tell you that I´m thankful that the Lord convinced me and helped me. You cannot do it yourself; I always think that when a girl is in love there is no human power able to change her feelings, so you need supernatural power, ask Him to guide you, strengthen you, to give you love for Him, to make you thirsty of His Word. And if I do date, I want it to be God-honoring. Or will it be the opposite? Also, is having a dating relationship in high school wise at all? I call them so-called but not really Christians. Once you get to know them, you can clearly tell that their faith is real. Men are the spiritual leaders in the relationship. Women are submissive to their leadership. It could slow you down from pursuing God even more. The only one that can change the heart of a person is God Ezekiel 36:26-27. Willing entering into these kinds of relationships will bring about more pain than you know. Especially, if you are considering marriage with an unbeliever. Jesus never promises sunshine and lollipops when we enter into a relationship with him, but the reward will be sweeter than anything we can imagine. I pray that the young women of today who know Jesus Christ will seek out godly wisdom from someone in their church when they are facing the struggles that come their way. You gave her sound advice I wish I heard a long time ago! How do I know? Because I been there. To this young lady, I say sister wait for God to bring you the One He has for you. Once you divorce him, you should remain as you are. There are many single Godly men waiting for someone like you if you trust Him simply and foremost! I married an unbeliever just six or so months after getting saved. The Holy Spirit I could feel was telling me not to go that path, but I did not listen and he was right. He showed me that it would pull me down spiritually and that I was not strong enough. I definitely did not see how far I drifted away from God and started loving the world. Years after we got married I started to Pursue God after not for a while. So much conflict in the family and lots of mockery. I never in my wildest dreams thought that my heart would turn from God, but it did. And so now we are divorced and everything that I attained from that marriage is completely gone except for my precious daughters. Yeah I would run from that situation as quick as you can. I heard a pastor recently talk about God turning our mess into our message. Mostly, keep pursuing Him wholeheartedly, and may He satisfy you every morning with His love. I was stupidly seeing an unbeliever many years ago, and what put me in a non-thinking frame of mind was his persistence in pursuing me and always flattering me. I knew what his intentions were, and I foolishly went along with it for awhile. The bucket of ice water came big time—you could say I had an epiphany—and I dropped the guy friend. It was really awkward because he lived near my apartment. God in His mercy, had another plan for me. I repented of seeing this guy and I told my best friend of the relationship. The guy moved out of state and I met an incredible godly man the following year. We have been married for over ten years. G-E-T a life and flee! My efforts have evidently been very futile. When my ex boyfriend and i started dating I was die-hard pagan and he is a very strong Christian man. I lost my faith as a teenager during an extremely difficult battle with depression and swore that I would never be Christian again. During my relationship with my boyfriend I was very honest with my beliefs, just as he was with his. He never pushed me to change my beliefs, but he did show me how God worked in his life daily and spoke about God like they were best friends. He was very patient and waited for me to suggest that we go to church. This man took my hand and led me back to God just by his actions, without preaching or pushing. I am still growing in my walk with God, and have regular stumbles, but, if a Christian man had ran from me when he found out I was pagan, I would still be pagan. God puts us in peoples lives for a reason. This young lady should speak with God and listen to what He has to say. It may be her job to help this man find God, it may not. That if for her to discuss with God. I kept refusing because he is not a christian but finally I gave in and we have been dating for a few months. However I told him we could never be serious because he is not a christian so he said he is willing to try going to church. I just wondered if this is worth it because he pursues me so intently but I wonder, Would God allow an unsaved man to be so interested in me?! I have a close friend whose boyfriend pursued her intently and started going to church with her. For your sake, I want to plead with you to call it off with him. I think people have mixed feelings about this article and might even misunderstand it. I totally get where you are coming from. My youth group began playing ultimate Frisbee as a way to get the youth and other unsaved teens and young adults to interact. We would talk about God and invite the lost to come to church. He began showing an interest in me. In my head, I thought that I could change him. He continued with his old ways. I was left broken and he never got saved. I think the point of this article is to help young women not get hurt from relationships that are unequally yoked. God wants to save us from the heartache. Be patient and pray! Temptations and loneliness can be strong but stay close to God. I want my saved husband to go with me and be by my side. You will shed tears and God will wipe them and comfort you. We both used to have a physical and emotional relationship until recently she decided to stop and put God first. I completely respected that and am even loving her more than ever. I want to be her biggest supporter as I know I cannot lead on the spiritual side of things. We are tight though in a weird sort of way. He can read me like a book and trusts me beyond belief. I have loved this man for seven years. He has never returned with the same kind of love. He loves me like a sister, but I would marry him if he would ever give his heart and soul to Jesus. But I Love him!! I have this weird peace. I honestly feel like I am supposed to wait for him to find Christ. I refuse to be close to him right now but I just feel like I am supposed to wait. What if I never get married cause I am waiting for a man who has never even acknowledged that I exist, like that anyway…???? You say that he has never indicated an interest in you beyond sisterly friendship. So please continue to pray for his salvation. The important thing for you to be doing right now is personally growing in your relationship with God. As you focus on Scripture, prayer and service to others, you can be assured He will use every situation in your life to prepare you for what only He knows is ahead for you. You can trust Him with your heart and your future, my friend! Praying for you this morning, friend! Yesterday we were walking home from work and he suggested we drop by a Catholic church in the neighborhood. We did and I prayed a bit while he looked around. Thank you so much!!! And have a blessed and fruitful Sunday!!! This teaches that two people that are committed to center their lives in Christ which Christians desire to do have the freedom to date and allow the Holy Spirit to guide them in their relationship. Trust the Lord not only with the moving out of this relationship but with what He has for you in the future. For the Lord honors those who honor Him. Get into the Word of God, Oleksandra. The joy and peace it gives to know God more intimately surpasses the pull of an unhealthy relationship. Look for relationships in a Christian group that bring refreshment to your life. Is there a Bible Study for young adults you could join? Is there a strong evangelical church in your area with a young adult group? I know this is not an easy thing to do. Be assured we have prayed for you. I am praying God will give you the courage and strength to want to do the right thing, and to do the right thing. I pray God will help you, confirm your faith in Him, and confront the young man you are dating with the Gospel, drawing him into a relationship with Christ. I know you desire that so much, and we do too. Thank you for giving us opportunity to speak into your life and for the privilege to pray for you. God bless you, for your desire to do what God would have you do. I have been an atheist all my life and have been married to a christian woman for 15 years now. Our kids go to church with her and I even like to go to my kids programs at their church. For all you out there with this question on your minds there is nothing wrong with it, if you do not agree then do what you feel is right but I hope you know we are all the same at the end of the day. An atheist hates the very idea of there being a God. Christians on the other hand in the majority of cases who hold a tremendous emotion stake in their beliefs. The notion that their beliefs are false would be too upsetting for them to contemplate. They simply could not bear their carefully structured world view to be exposed as delusion or fraud. Not surprisingly only a few lowered their hands. This interesting thought experiment plus day to day observation of human nature signals to me that it is religious believers who maintain their beliefs from emotional motives. I have been a believer since I was about 10 years old. I committed myself to Christ and decided to follow Him at all costs. I guess I didnt realise at what cost I will be required to pay. As every woman desires, I desired to fall in love, and marriage with a good Christian man. But I went to a girls boarding school and never met any boys. I left school at 16. Then at university in the United Kingdom, I met lots of guys but they were not Christians, and I was single throughout. After graduating, I did further studies, but never met a Christian guy…you know the idealist Christian guy that blogs like these speak about. I am now 33 and the only guys I have ever dated have been through work, and I have never met a Christian man at work. They have always been atheist. Because I have always had this fear and guilt of dating a non Christian, I have never been able to fully commit to a non-believing guy. Articles like this highlight the choice Christian women have to make when they follow Christianity. I attend Church and in fact attended a mega Church in London for 7 years, but I never met any single Christian men there. All the Church ministry activities I did were full of women. Men in general just dont seem to want to serve in Church here in the UK. I attend a medium church now with lots of young single Christians, but there are maybe 100 beautiful Christian girls to 10 Christian, God-loving, Bible-believing guys. Its great for happily married Christian couples in their twenties and early thirties shouting dont marry him etc etc, but I am 33 and I have lost hope. I am constantly surrounded by Christian WOMEN. Do you have any idea how hard it is? I only ever get pursued by non-believing guys, because on average, non-believing guys OUTNUMBER believing guys in my part of the world. So basically what you are saying to me is that I should remain single? My young life is gone, I am still a virgin and I am still waiting for this amazing Chrisitian marriage-material man. Can you see how sad my life is? There are 100 christian women for every 10 christian guys…can you see that you are telling me to remain an umarried virgin for the rest of my life? Is it fair to say that maybe if the world was full of Christians, then yes a Christian woman should obviously seek out a believer. But the world is full of maybe 10% real Christians. The majortiy of people are non-christians or non-practising, or agnostic. So in a world like this, what a Christian women supposed to do? Remain single and virgin the rest of their lives? Has anyone thought about a solution to this? You are 33 and have spend 15 years of your adult life a virgin without a mate. Her faith is in no way diminished for marrying me nor do I stand in her way in her faith journey. I do however accompany her to church one in a while. Despite our faith differences the love and the marital bond is there every bit as if we believed the same. The waiting can be very, very hard. But let me exhort you to not lower your standards. Our highest purpose in life is not to be a wife and mother. The highest purpose we can ever hope to achieve is to serve God faithfully where He has us regardless of our circumstances. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me. There is indeed a loneliness that far surpasses what you may be experiencing now. Not being one in spirit with your mate is devastatingly lonely. The only One who can fill the void you feel in your life is Jesus Christ. Run to Him, Melina! Pour out your heart, your dreams and your desires to Him and then surrender them all to Him choosing to entrust your heart and your future to Him. Then I challenge you to look around you. Where can you serve Him with all your heart as you wait for Him to reveal the plan He has for you? Will you pour your life into the lives of others? In doing this you will begin to live your life with an eternal focus rather than a focus on the here and now. Stay in the Word, my friend. It will keep you anchored to the heart of God! I am trying to pour myslef into helping others but its so hard with this burden in my heart. I wish I understood what you mean about Jesus filling the void in my heart. I really wish I did, because I am already a Christian, and have been for over 20 years. But thank you for your response I am hoping that Jesus will have mercy on me soon. I think this issue is between me and Him. But I wanted to put this question out there because the Church seems to avoid the anguish and pain than people experience on a daily basis. I wish these complex topics were highlighted more often. It may be an issue of trust and of surrender. We know that God has the ability to bring you a godly spouse, Melina. He loves you far more than you can imagine. He always has your best at the center of His love for you. While choosing to follow your own heart and choose outside of His will may seem the only way for you, it will bring far more grief and pain than you are experiencing now. Having the support of an older godly woman in your life would be a blessing to you. Would you pray about who to speak to about your situation and the pain you carry? She could encourage you, pray for you, keep you pointed to Christ. Perhaps you can join together with some other women and do a Bible study so that your emotions are kept in line with Scripture. As I was praying today, these broadcasts from Revive Our Hearts came to my mind. Would you take time to listen and pray through this? To some of us, thought, we are given the seeds that we must plant. As a young Christian woman who is strong in my faith, I of course imagined myself with a man who also loves the Lord. One day though, in the way ONLY God can bring two strangers together, I met my boyfriend. Raised a Christian but intelligent and analytical to a fault, he has chosen for now to side with science and be an agnostic. I pray for him and will openly talk about spirituality. And as frustrating as it is, my faith has grown STRONGER during our relationship. I pray more often, I reflect more often, I see the Lord through a different lens than I did and believe with 100% certainty that God has a plan for us. Instead of unholy doubt, I have Christian FAITH that my boyfriend I care about so dearly whose heart I can see has already been softened during our time as a couple then I trust God will do his will. We cannot see the bigger picture, we do not know His plans. I believe my boyfriend is someone God put in my life, made for me, and only I can know that. There are Christian men that lie and cheat as well as nonbelievers who are devoted and loyal. A Godly woman is strong enough to keep a relationship on the right path and with Him I choose to have faith in His plan not doubt. How sad would it be if He chose to give up on us if we strayed…I will not do that to the boy I love and share my life with. Our emotions cannot lead our decisions because they will lead us down a path that God may not have for us. God does search our hearts and He does not want anyone to perish and all to come to repentance 2 Pet. He does love your boyfriend and wants him to return to Christ in repentance and salvation. When we marry, we become one with our mates and that is not just physically but also emotionally and spiritually. God designed marriage to be a visible reminder of the pure love that Christ has for the church. He has a much bigger plan for our marriages than we can ever even imagine. It is important to remember that God will never lead us to do something that He specifically tells us in the Bible not to do. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? Is it okay to date non-Christians? Our team is praying for you and asking the Lord to give you much wisdom and discernment. What do you propose the left out women do? Given that studies tell us mixed faith relationships can and do result in successful and loving marriages I think the answer is easy. There are many factors that make for a happy and fulfilled marriage that are far more important than religious belief. Surely common sense dictates your choice of who to spend the rest of your life with weighs heavily in favour of the atheist. This post is full of innaccuracies. At least, not a healthy one. Personally, I believe such a relationship would be a living nightmare for the Atheist in general. That being said, saying that Atheists hate the idea of there being a god is just false generalization. This is exactly why I hate Religion. How can you really say about athiests like that.. You need to grow up even as a human first.. How about eat something healthy.. Religions are just trademarking for customer fools like some people i saw here.. Try to live as human.. This is a great reminder that God has someone planned for my life and I am to give my heart to Him while He writes my love story. I know that if the man God has planned for me is an atheist right now, that God will change His heart before our love story begins. I know that dating is not a missions field and when I try to interweave my life with a unbeliever, I will be the one dragged down into sin and destruction. If I truly feel that God has this person planned for me, I have faith to know that He will change their heart before I even have to worry. My GOD IS GOOD!!! He loves me so much more than any man ever will; even if he is a Christian man. I am praying for all my dear sisters who are currently dealing with this. I love you all, and more importantly, He loves you. Just hand Him the pen. What kind of God would advocate that?? The intimacy we can know with another human here and now is nothing compared to the intimacy we will know with the One we were ultimately created for. I will admit that his religion interferes greatly with a few things such as him having to wait until marriage for sex, while I would be fine doing it anytime if he asked but I love him enough to look past it all and just deal with it. He loves me enough to look past my disbelief in his religion. I still go to his church events, even though I think every word is a lie, because I value our relationship more that my beliefs or lack thereof. Do you not think that atheists do not have feelings too. Imagine finding out that your husband has been faking his Christianity after 8 years just so that he could share his life with the one and only person that he can be himself with in every aspect except one. I am a Christian was saved when I was 15 raised in a super conservative household, Baptist church and Baptist private school. I still appreciate my back ground, even if it seems strict to others. I been married to a atheist for 7 years now, we have children too. I miss him when he goes to work, I never been so happy then the day I knew I loved him led to many more happy days. He is supportive of my love for God, though yes he does not himself believe He does not tell my kids not to believe in God or speak badly about God around us. You clearly have been blinded by hate and sin. It is because of people like you and crap like this that you write that turns people away from christianity and our God. The world is soaked with hate and distrust because of evil. Articles like this are the work of the devil. Your hate and fear and misunderstanding of atheists is the blind ambition that evil uses to draw people father and farther from christ. You know nothing of gods plans for this couple or any couple for that matter. You have no more right to judge people than a worm crawling through the mud. If I had listed to people like you who spew bile at things they do not know of or understand, I would of been robbed of the happiest moments of my life. I am a christian and I have been with an atheist, who is also the love of my life, for a long time and when we met I knew, I knew 100% with out a doubt that this person was supposed to be in my life, I prayed about it I read about it, I cried about it. I am writing angry, which explains my insults towards you but but you have misspoke using our Lord and the scripture, based out of your ignorance. I will pray for you and this couple. Do not let evil drive you Paula.
